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QueeringPsychology
January 26, 2026
Glimmers are the small moments that help the nervous system feel safe. Learn how glimmers differ from triggers and why they matter in trauma and somatic therapy.....
Have you ever been in a fight where you realize in hindsight or maybe even during that this shouldn't have gotten to this point? You might have even wondered, "How did I/we even get here?" or "Why are we even fighting?" Maybe even sitcom levels of misunderstanding. If this sounds....
QueeringPsychology
April 16, 2025
The way the word "trigger" has been intentionally used incorrectly for political gain has caused so much confusion. Being triggered is not someone upsetting you or making you angry or insecure. Being triggered is not about scoring debate points. So what are triggers then?....
So what do we call it when the stress of the situation is so much that it even overwhelms your fight/flight, freeze, AND fawn survival responses? That's trauma. Trauma is the complete overpowering of our capacity/ability to handle stress. It's a level of stress that completely overwhelms the autonomic nervous....
One way to tell fear and anxiety apart is asking yourself, "Is the thing/situation I'm scared of happening to me right now or is this something that will/might/possibly happen in the future?"....
Learning and naming your physical sensations (and where they are in your body) starts to change how you see your body and how you respond to your body’s reactions. It becomes easier to separate how you feel in a particular moment from any, usually harsh, judgments you might carry about....
QueeringPsychology
May 25, 2024
When doing a body scan, it's important to pay attention to physical sensations in your body - how they feel and where you feel them. Like I've said before, those physical sensations are the roots of your emotions and behaviors.....
When you are in fight/flight, in shutdown, or any of the survival mode responses, your whole brain and body is focused on surviving the danger, whatever it is. That's useful in the short-term, but by now, you know that we can't stay in survival mode forever. Even though it’s how....
Unit 2 will focus on mapping out your autonomic nervous system and using specific somatic exercises to learn how your ANS works. My plan for this Unit is to show y’all a few intro somatic exercises, specifically Grounding, Body Scan/Check-in, and Notice and Name.....

Welcome back to the somatic series! This next chapter focuses on how our bodies move from 1 state/part of the autonomic nervous system to another. How we move from ventral vagus to fight/flight to dorsal vagal shutdown. I’m using the NYC subway map to show how this works naturally and....